What we could have done

The last couple of weeks at work have been busy in the run up to the company’s big biannual meeting with our shareholders, who are largely doctors themselves. It was a beautifully sunny day at the London Rowing club, and there present were a mixture of GPs, GPSIs and specialist Consultants from a range of backgrounds.

It’s incredible, really, that Dr Karen Morton, the founder of the company, has surrounded herself with such a throng of high quality doctors. Karen is one of those magnetic people – a mixture of high intelligence, energy, compassion and drive – and doctors, I have noticed, are inherently drawn to these types. They inspire a lot of respect in us.

The day kicked off with a case-based quiz about thyroid disease from endocrinologist Dr Vicky Hordern. It was an unexpected kick-back to med school tutorials, and I was mortified to realise how much I seem to have forgotten… It didn’t help that my last rotation was Orthopaedics! The existence of things like sick euthyroid syndrome and postpartum thyroiditis seems to have escaped me somehow… My only comfort was that some of the doctors struggled too!

The other medical talk was Karen’s update on Menopause after attending the British Menopause Society’s conference recently. Did you know that the number of hot flushes a women has is directly related to memory loss? Fascinating. It’s nice to be connected to the medical world in this way. I know it’s silly, but the idea of falling behind and being totally out of the loop in a few years troubles me. Is this what people who do a normal degree feel like? If they do a History degree and go into an unrelated career, do they worry about forgetting the dates of battles or the names of Kings? Does a Physics PhD who now works in web development ever get anxious that they might miss the latest developments at CERN? Perhaps. I don’t know. Maybe it’s a doctor thing.

I hadn’t had the opportunity to meet many of the Dr Morton’s doctors before, so it was great to finally do so. As well as talking about medical life, we chatted about the external skills and interests. They seemed very impressed with my presentation about Digital Marketing and SEO, and some of them also had experience of that world themselves.

“I have my own website and I wish my PR and Marketing manager understood Medicine! They just don’t get it!”

“My Marketing manager used to get annoyed with my lack of social media presence, and advised me to go on a Twitter course. I refused to go, but now I have more followers than she does and I tease her about sending her on that course now!”

“Well done on your presentation! What you’ve done is prove that doctors can pick up new skills very quickly if they put their minds to it!”

I met GP Dr Amir Mehrkar, who told me about all the different things he’d done over his career.

“Don’t go through life so focused on becoming an expert in something that you block out everything else. The successes I’ve had in my life haven’t happened because I’m an expert – they happened because I experimented, tasted different careers, learned about new concepts, and met different people. I’ve got further with a bit of knowledge and a lot of networking, than with a lot of knowledge and sitting in my office all day.”

I chatted to Dr Alex Standring, another GP who like me, trained at Bristol.

“I think every doctor has moments in their career when they consider leaving, it’s just that some of us do something about it and some of us stick it out. I’m not sorry I stayed, because I’ve got to a place in my life now where it suits me and I can manage my career, but I can understand why you’ve made the leap.”

Later, I was with another group of doctors and we got onto the topic of the junior contract dispute, the Whatsapp message leak and the general state of affairs in the medical profession currently. Their perspective was interesting.

One of the doctors had a patient, who apparently had never worked a day in their lives, and had condemned the junior doctors for ‘complaining’ about their working conditions and dismissed the issue by saying ‘isn’t it what they signed up for?’

Obviously this statement annoyed all of us, and the reaction to this from the doctors was this: to get into medical school you have to be a lot of things- bright, hard-working, talented, tenacious, caring, energetic – and if they really wanted to make a lot of money and buy fancy cars or big houses, those students could go into business or finance. They could put in the same long hours a doctor puts in, and deal with similar levels of stress, but get paid a whole lot more for it, and probably experience more of life through travel and networking opportunities. They would quite likely be treated better too, with basics like food and drink provided if they work late.

So why don’t they do that? Why don’t they drop everything and become investment bankers?  Well, it’s because they care. They want to make a difference in life. They want to help people.

OK, so some people *asians like me* do it to please their parents, but I don’t think I’m alone in saying I certainly wouldn’t have done it if that was the only reason. Even before I considered medical school, I appreciated and approved of the idea of doing something with my life that could ultimately make someone else’s life better. Whatever the influences around me at the time, I would not have studied medicine if I had not believed that it was fundamentally a fantastic thing to do.

So isn’t is paradoxical that our society ultimately punishes the people who chose to be selfless? Is that not something we should be proud of? Something we should reward? The saddest thing is, that reward wouldn’t need to be financial. What would best serve the caring is making it possible for them to continue their mission – in short, to give them the kindness, compassion and respect that they want so much to give to others.

 

 

 

 

 

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4 thoughts on “What we could have done

  1. interesting though, we’re all so convinced we’re in medicine to help people and we could earn so much more elsewhere, but if we’re so caring how many of us would consider being nurses? Remove the social status and the earning potential and how many of us still feel altruistic?

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    1. Interesting thought – I think some doctors probably wouldn’t continue to feel altruistic without those perks, but at the same time, I have great faith in the medical profession as a whole. From my experience, doctors tend to be very giving people, and even if they started Medicine for the wrong reasons, many come round to valuing it in a different way. I suppose that was my story – I went into med school because of my parents, but Medicine started to mean more to me as I went through the system. Now that I’ve seen more of the non-medical world, I’ve seen how the generosity of time and knowledge we take for granted as doctors can rarely be found elsewhere without paying for it!

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  2. It sickens me the lack of respect doctors get – some of the stories I hear from other doctors are appalling. I’ve seen the blood, sweat and tears that go in to make a medical professional and I would gladly punch in the face anyone that mistreated my friends. Fair working conditions in the bare minimum they should expect.
    It’s the same for other ‘caring’ professions. People harp on about teacher holidays and alleged 330 finishes as though we are lazy and complaining unnecessarily all the time. If I clocked my hours and worked out an hourly rate it would be a joke. There is such a lack of respect and it filters through to the students.

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